This is not what I have been saying. I have been highlighting the role of Hamas as a de facto state-actor. I have clearly stated exactly what IMHO should make them international pariahs. It is actually quite simple and comes down to 3 unassailable arguments:
1) Would the war in Gaza have happened if not for the attacks of 7/10 ? The answer is 'no'
2) Was a bloodbath in Gaza's densely populated areas inevitable once the fight moved there? The answer is "Yes"*.
3) Was it a deliberate and planned strategy by Hamas to do exactly that? The answer is 'yes'.
* The only way to avoid a bloodbath would have been for Israel to be deterred by an enemy state actor using its own people as human shields. If you hear people mentioning the a country's right to defend itself, this is what's being referred to, and it is quite independent of whether that country has gained or lost ground in a long running conflict.
In other words, feel free to criticize the methods of the IDF, but the fact that there's a bloodbath in Gaza is all on the heads of Hamas and it was their deliberate choice.