Pretty sure that guy was joking.
There is nothing wrong with the patch nor the response that CA manager decided to go with. If you don't like something, don't play it or if you can, just change it. If you bought the game beforehand, trade it (sell it if you can), and don't buy a sequel. Less misogynists in gaming is a plus to me anyways. Many other legitimate things to complain about regarding games and this game than a cosmetic one in a game series that isn't about nor has ever been about historical accuracy.